Today force deleting (if a container is running then stop()'ing first)
is handled entirely in the cli, which is brittle. The CLI doesn't know
if the container was started with --rm so it would have to do a weird
timeout + list dance to check if the containers gone after stopping.
This change remedies this by just having the daemon take in a `force`
boolean to the delete rpc. If this is provided and the container is
running then we'll stop first, and then cleanup. We can additionally not
cleanup if --rm was provided as the daemon has the data to determine if
a container asked for autoRemove.
Danny Canter