feat: replace forceAppUpdate with customed reloadWindow

flutter/lib/desktop/widgets/refresh_wrapper.dart

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+import 'package:flutter/material.dart';
+import 'package:flutter_hbb/main.dart';
+import 'package:get/get.dart';
+
+class RefreshWrapper extends StatefulWidget {
+  final Widget Function(BuildContext context) builder;
+  const RefreshWrapper({super.key, required this.builder});
+
+  @override
+  State<RefreshWrapper> createState() => RefreshWrapperState();
+
+  static RefreshWrapperState? of(BuildContext context) {
+    final state = context.findAncestorStateOfType<RefreshWrapperState>();
+    if (state == null) {
+      debugPrint(
+          "RefreshWrapperState not exists in this context, perhaps RefreshWrapper is not exists?");
+    }
+    return state;
+  }
+}
+
+class RefreshWrapperState extends State<RefreshWrapper> {
+  @override
+  Widget build(BuildContext context) {
+    return widget.builder(context);
+  }
+
+  rebuild() {
+    debugPrint("=====Global State Rebuild (win-${windowId ?? 'main'})=====");
+    if (Get.context != null) {
+      (context as Element).visitChildren(_rebuildElement);
+    }
+    setState(() {});
+  }
+
+  /// set root tree dirty to trigger global rebuild
+  void _rebuildElement(Element el) {
+    el.markNeedsBuild();
+    el.visitChildren(_rebuildElement);
+  }
+}